Aaron

 I once won third place in a writing contest for the following. Enjoy (as I have no time this week to write something fresh.)

My chest heaves as my lungs gasp for air, the latest cough attack wracking my body. My younger brother’s strong arms support me while I catch my breath, and with the courage and tenderness only a family member can give, he wipes some of the blood from my beard.

“Are you well?” he asks, and I nod, though my eyes are fixed on the bloody fingers he’s retracting and wiping on the front of his tunic.

Slowly, my breathing normalizes, but my mind has drifted back to another time and place. I remember my mother’s fingers, as nimble and graceful as butterfly wings, weaving together the fresh papyrus basket when one of the sharp ends stabbed the tip of her index finger. A bright red bubble of blood formed quickly before she jabbed it in her mouth.

“Are you bleeding, Mama?” I asked, worry lines marking the edges of my eyes, I’m sure.

“Just a tiny bit, sweetheart. Not to worry.”

But as she continued her work, a labor of love that would offer my baby brother escape from the terror of a man intent on killing newborns, she left the tiniest streak of crimson on a green background. I was afraid that Moses would touch it and get it all over himself when she put him inside, but even though he fussed and cried, his little hands couldn’t begin to reach it. Still, when she left the house in the late afternoon in timing with the princess’ routines, my heart went with them and that little ribbon of red. I feared I would never see my brother again. 

The vision shifts, and I remember the criss-cross patterns on slaves’ backs as my caring wife tended to their wounds. Life seeped between rags that failed to hold it in. Each rivulet seemed to etch itself deeper into my wife’s face until one day just before our freedom came, it sapped all her strength, and she too breathed her last.

I see that first day of our freedom again, sharp as a blade in my mind. My father’s sleeve dappled with blood as the flimsy hyssop branch he was holding dripped lamb’s blood down his arm.

“What is Grandfather doing?” my son Eleazar asked me. And for the first of many, many times, I explained to him what the Passover lamb was for.

“This blood will be our escape, son,” I patted him on the head and led him into the house beneath the blood-stained lintel where my mother was furiously chopping parsley to go over the lamb. I looked over at the fresh meat, just about to go into the boiling pot of water and oil. Strange that this poor, perfect animal’s blood would be able to protect us from the coming promised doom. I was only just beginning to understand the cost of a life, especially one bathed in sweat and tears. And to have an innocent lamb pay for it was incomprehensible.

I blink away the memories and re-focus on my brother, Moses, God’s favored one. He sees the clarity return to my eyes and smiles with relief.

“One more cough, and I was sure your lungs were going to come right out of your mouth.”

Daring to inhale deeply, I force a small smile and then push myself up to a standing position. We still have a ways to go to the top of this mountain.

Eleazar, who had run ahead with a pack on his shoulders, comes back into view. “There you two are! Is everything all right, Uncle?” I know he’s addressing Moses and yet wondering about me. It’s been over four months now that the disease has slowly taken over my breathing. Two months ago was the first time I found blood on my arm after a particularly heavy cough, and it has only gotten worse – that red liquid that has marked my journey from small child to senile old fool.

Hours pass, and the sun has nearly set by the time the three of us reach the sacred spot the Lord has whispered into Moses’ ear. Eleazar drops the pack to the dirt, and I exert great effort to suppress a cough closing in upon the edges of my lungs. My son supports me as I sink onto a nearby boulder and close my eyes while I focus on the single task of inhaling and exhaling. My end is near, I know.

“Aaron, are you ready?” Moses asks ever so gently. It’s a little surprising as our relationship hasn’t exactly been a gentle one over the years. But I trust him. We hardly knew each other when God brought us together in order to confront Pharaoh. And when he turned the Nile River into blood, it took every ounce of my willpower not to turn and run the other way away from him. But in his bold forcefulness, I trusted him.

He touches my shoulder, and I open my eyes and nod. With Eleazar’s support, I stand so Moses can remove my garments as the Lord has commanded. I most grieve the first item, the breastpiece with the 12 stones and the names of all the tribes of Israel. I feel both weightless and heavy when it no longer rests against my chest. This is followed by the frontlet and headdress, the ephod, the sash and the blue robe, made most audible by the tinkling of the little pomegranate bells around its hem. I watch as in reverse order, he places each item ceremoniously onto my son. It’s the sharp red sard stone of Reuben that most catches my eye as it shimmers in the setting sun.

It seems like yesterday I was receiving those priestly garments for the first time. Each piece had that new-fabric smell and had been specially consecrated. It almost felt wrong when Moses sacrificed that very first animal on the new altar, dipped his thumb into the mess, and drew a line across my forehead. I tilted my head back, not wanting the blood to stain the new clothes, and still, one tiny droplet managed to find its way onto the collar of the tunic.

I find that dot even now, brown and mostly faded over the years. It stands as that reminder of the promise now etched in stone – that forgiveness must and will come through the shedding of blood. 

Eleazar looks handsome in my clothes, and I smile with joy even as a breeze sends chills down my spine in my light tunic here on Mount Hor. 

Suddenly I feel it well up within me, the final attack. My lungs heave, and I hold my hand up to my mouth as I cough and cough, only to discover it covered in blood when I withdraw it. My head feels heavy, and I fall to the ground. Gently. My brother and son are holding me after all. My life’s journey feels complete, and I trust that the blood of the many lambs I have sacrificed will be my salvation, even as I escape the gravity of this earth.

Color the Seasons

 I was staring out at the orange-mottled scene in front of me, the top edge of the Black Forest reflecting in the Nonnenmattweiher Lake down below us. (What a fun name!) It was a gray drizzly day to be out hiking with 5 friends, but despite the chill in the air, we were responding to the call of the outdoors and the company of lovely people. The last time I had been out this far into the Black Forest was during the Spring of 2020, when the only way to get outside, according to the government, was in the name of "doing sports." Everyone suddenly became a hiker.

I closed my eyes and recalled the vibrant bright green from that time, the tips of trees showing off their new growth. I remembered how brilliant the whites of the apple tree blossoms had been, and the blue of the sky without contrails breaking it up. With another minute, I could've remembered the feel of that spring sun and the cacophony of birds. Today the colors were much more muted and animals were beginning to hide away. Krista pointed out that the oranges and yellows and even reds of our glorious fall were definitely fading away to brown here at the end of October, and soon they would descend to the ground, leaving only the darkest of green conifers. As I tried to picture what the forest will look like in just two weeks' time without the orange, I caught a whiff of Christmas, all pine wrapped up in cinnamon and firewood. It was fleeting, but it struck me how much the colors of the forest are tied to seasons for me. The brown and white crunicheness of winter, the neon green growth of spring, the lush overhead branches with their thick greens of summer, and these muted warm tones of fall. If you can't tell by now, I love the forest!

Nonnenmattweiher Lake and Belchen Mountain to the right

May the Nations Rejoice

Mallory* was the cool trainee, sitting in the far back corner, mask securely in place and phone in hands as she’d both type and nod along to what we trainers were saying. Every now and then, she paused and interjected an incredibly insightful comment, but mostly I struggled to read her engagement level or whether she was internally rolling her eyes at what I was saying. Add to that her observation of my tattoo one day at lunch with a slight shake of her head, and I spent the rest of the week in pants, unsure if I had offended her or all of African culture. Or at least Christian African culture.

Partway through the week, I did observe her put down her phone, cross her arms, and lean back in her chair. It was the session on leaders' being able to cast a vision for their school, and I was sharing personally about the vision that eventually took me into missions work and specifically teaching. As a little girl, I hadn’t really imagined being a teacher, but I did always know I had a heart for the nations. That scene in Revelation 7 when every tribe, tongue, and nation is standing before the throne of God - that could make me tear up in an instance! In sharing that story with the trainees, trying not to choke up in front of them, for a brief moment the vision crystalized right in front of me. The passion to serve their own nations was written all over their faces, and the thought that these trainees were committing themselves to work on behalf of Christian education in their East African countries burst out in gratitude for them. In the corner, Mallory’s face scrunched up, inscrutable as ever.

On the last day, we were presented with Thank You cards, which I didn’t open until I was on the plane back to Germany. Everyone said really nice things and expressed gratitude for the training. And then, there in the corner (where else) was Mallory’s little scrawl that read: “May the nations rejoice because you came.” There was no holding back the tears this time. It was my dream, succinctly articulated as a vision statement, and all I could think was “Yes, Lord, may it be so!”

*not her real name

Mallory is in the back, fourth from the left.

Check the box first!

We had worked our way through the maze of Swedish furniture, lying on all the mattresses and beds in the process, and I stood now in front of the help desk with the certainty of my decision in hand. I wanted the Björksnäs in the 140x200 cm size. That way it would fit the boxspring I already had at home, though I did want a new mattress, please. The lady handed me the printout, and I followed it down to the letter once we got to the large warehouse hall, hauling only the boxes with the codes she had specified. I was sweating by the time we reached the van, but I couldn’t wait until Karen came over and we could assemble my new purchase.

I had cleared my room of all traces of the old bed, the boxspring and mattress took up the entire hallway, but Karen and I had just enough space to spread out the Ikea boxes and begin alan-wrenching together bed-legs and correctly organizing various frame pieces. At one point, the thought crossed my mind, “This bed is going to block some of the window. I must have measured wrong,” but on we forged. The 16 tiniest screws that had to be hand-twisted into the metal portion where the mattress frame would rest were nearly our undoing. The drill couldn’t reach, and it took the two of us 45 minutes and some hand cramps to get them all in.

About two hours into the process, I reached for the fourth and last box, the one that held the spring wood frames, and that was when my eyes caught the large numbers on the side panel for the first time: 160x200 cm. My eyes darted back to the bed and the extra bit that stuck out in front of the window. In panic I looked at Karen, who threw her hands up to her face. “What?!” “I bought the wrong size everything!” Sure enough, we were able to finish assembling all the bed pieces, thank the Lord, but the boxspring and mattress left a giant-feeling 20-cm gap that I rolled into the first night.

Karen laughed and then cut herself short, “We’re not starting over, are we?!” Of course we didn’t. Those 16 screws alone weren’t worth it, much less another trip to Freiburg and the hassle of a German return. In the end, I was able to sell my 140x200 boxspring and mattress and get a 160x200 size one so that I no longer fall into the gap. But I learned my lesson: always check the boxes for all the numbers.

Bible Flakes

My Bible has been slowly flaking to pieces. I picked it out a few years ago because of the brown-blue cover and paisley pattern that I was into at the time. However, it didn't take long to see that anytime my fingernail caught the edge of the cover, a little bit of the leather would flake off. The recent Home Assignment year of travel that saw me constantly shoving my Bible into a suitcase and yanking it out again didn't do the poor book any favors. Add to all this the sticky humid weather we have been having, the kind you have to wear shorts in and thus lay your Bible on your bare knees, and you get the following picture: 

Leather lint sticking to my skin and clothes. Some days I find little flecks as I'm already in the middle of teaching, a blue dot on my yellow shirt, informing people that I potentially haven't done laundry in a few days. But then this morning - as I caught yet another big chunk under my fingernail and sighed heavily - I was struck by the realization that it is such a privilege. Not only do I have God's Word at my fingertips whenever I want and in my own personal copy with colors I selected, I get to (even inadvertently) carry it with me into the day.

I read in Acts recently about the birth of the Church at Pentecost, when the Holy Spirit was poured out on believers in visible fire and each person got swept up by the wind and consequently carried God's presence out into the world. According to a summary I watched (linked here), the symbolism should remind us of the times God's presence came near in the Old Testament, notably on Mount Sinai and in both the desert Tabernacle and the Jerusalem Temple. Now that Jesus has paved the way, we are all like mini mobile temples who can carry God's glory and truth and Word out into the world all the time. Tiny flakes of Jesus's body. 

So the next time I find a brown dot on my pants leg, I hope I remember to shine bright and speak truth in love, just as Jesus would do.

Flags and Butterflies and Screaming Children

The "Day of Screaming Children" began exactly as it had every previous year at BFA: me, lying awake in bed half an hour before my alarm, previewing in my mind all the day’s events and wondering how they could all fit in. This moniker for the Opening Ceremony came from my first principal because our students - after 11 weeks apart over the summer - usually run screaming at each other followed either by a long embrace or a giddy jumping up and down. Though medical masks muffled some of the sound and kept long hugs at bay this year, the enthusiasm was still palpable. The Senior class eagerly grabbed their favorite flags or those that represented one of their best friends and lined up for pictures while parents yelled, “Smile! Yes, with your eyes!”

Due to regulations, most of the staff had to watch Opening Ceremonies on the big screen in the Student Center. We laughed together over the transmission delay every time we could hear cheering from across campus moments before our visual showed us why. The students were literally cheering for everything. Every flag (from Afghanistan to Zimbabwe), every speaker, every sip of water. We were simply grateful in the allowance of being together in person. 

The day carried me through get-to-know-you games with the Grade 8 boys, an Assembly in which I demonstrated proper German recycling, lunch in the sunshine with some Grade 6 girls, Homeroom time going over rules and procedures, and a whole-school activity coloring parts of multiple butterflies that will decorate our hallways. And it was that last activity that got me thinking about the journeys our students and staff go through to get here. In some ways it is ridiculous that a hoard of expats descends on this unassuming German village every year to do school, but it’s also beautiful. Much like the 2,500-mile trek a monarch butterfly can undertake in just one migration, our people aren’t native to here. Whether we come eagerly or dragging our feet, the colors of the flags adorn our hallways as visible reminders that we all had to travel to get here. Our children scream on this day because, if they have to be 2,500 miles from “home,” it seems best to do that among a flutter of other butterflies who can relate.

This day will quickly give way to the habitual, dare we say the mundane. Eventually it will be my alarm clock waking me up again instead of the other way around. Homework will break into reality, and my guess is by next weekend, we’ll have our first students pushing back on some of those rules and procedures. Still, as we inhale deeply and dive into another year, I'm grateful for visual tokens and days that have names. They remind us that some things should be set apart, that our lives are colorful and our calling holy. It's a day worth remembering.

My unique view of the Seniors with the Flags (Aug 25, 2021)

Messy Mercies

Transition is messy. I’ve cried more times than I’d like to admit in the three weeks I’ve been back, mostly in private and just a tear or two before something beautiful bursts the bubble again, like the sound of church bells or the smell of flowers I hand-picked in a field. At work I’ve been moved to a new classroom. Half of me is mourning the old one that holds so many memories, and the other half of me is excited for an escape to this much cozier-feeling room. Getting to hang out with friends I’ve missed over the past year is a boon to my soul, but then I miss those I got to know better this past year, like my small group and Amanda’s family. Thorsen and Eva no longer call me to dinner with their sweet giggles. Plus, there are giant holes all over town where people left, and even though I said a “proper” good-bye to many of them before I left last summer, I still somehow felt swindled out of their presence in my life. See? Messy.

I found this verse in Mark 5:19 this morning, “Go home to your friends and tell them how much the Lord has done for you and how he has had mercy on you.” My first thought was wishing I had seen it a year ago because it could’ve been a great anthem for Home Assignment. My second thought was how much I looked forward to returning to this home here in Germany and how here too I have friends who should be hearing about what God has done for me. His mercies, though often hidden in the mess, are new every morning.

So how has the Lord shown me mercy in this transition? I see evidence in the friend who has walked the same road as I have for the last 12 months, so she gets my tears and I understand hers. His mercy showed up in an email from a former student about to enter high school, asking if I would consider a mentoring relationship with her. (We’re getting together tomorrow to talk about it.) The arms of a long-time Kanderner who has walked her own transitions over the years gave me a touch of his mercy. I tasted it on Thursday when my prayer group gathered around my table for the first time since before the Pandemic, and we read Psalms together and prayed for our hearts, our school, and the world. His mercy is humming right now under the window in the form of an air conditioner, keeping the sweltering humidity out of at least one room in my house. 

In no way do I mean to negate any of the hard or rotten or terrible aspects of transition. They stink, and often there is no way around them; in the wise words of the Bear Hunt song, sometimes you have to go through it. But in my constant struggle to develop thick skins and soft hearts (see my blog from a year ago), it’s useful to remind my heart of “how much the Lord has done for me.”

a Saturday stroll through the vineyards after a picnic with friends